12 step guide to win your man back!

Have you recently noticed your husband checking out other women with longing eyes at a restaurant?

Have you two been cribbing more than kissing?

Do you feel like you’re too comfortable with your husband to worry about the way you look post the wedding vows?

Or then have you noticed him to quietly withdraw into the "Don’t disturb me, I am watching television mode” lately?

Then these are severe signs of that special fire dying out of your relationships!

Quick, act before it’s too late!

Before starting the 12 wake up calls let me tell you why this is happening - 

They miss their girlfriends they fell in love with. The carefree, hot & sexy, fun loving & the one who made him go weak in his knees every time he saw her! 

Here are quick 12 wake up calls to save the dying fire in your relationships.

Read on:

1. A goodbye kiss seals your relationship

Before marriage when you guys were dating you would kiss all the time, “Oh baby I love you” & he would go like, “Oh doll I am going to miss you.”

Then what happened after marriage that you stopped this beautiful ritual? This ritual let me tell you is your secret weapon. It never lets him forget that he cannot bear to lose you & that you’re his hotness forever.

Rush out the door with him next time & smack that gentle kiss quickly without anyone noticing but he & you’ll see a surprised but naughty smile on his face.

2. Bring back the curiosity about you in him

Men love their women to play quirky with them. He misses those secret rendezvous you would have at his place when parents were away!

Even if he is busy at work, he will be curious enough to find out what his wife is upto!

Let him walk in on you while you’re preparing his favourite meal. Enjoy that special moment of togetherness; it’s these cute moments that fulfill their need to be wanted.

3. Don’t become fat & call it the married pleasure!

It may be a pleasure for you to be adding those kilos because you are satisfied with your life; but that’s not what he’s thinking. 

Don’t stay under the impression that just because your husband loves you, your extra kilos after marriage don’t bother him! And please definitely don’t call it their love; it angers them to no extent.

So lose that fat & become that sexy girl friend again. Men love their women to be as hot as their wasabi.

4. Stay desirable always

Play hard to get around him, if you've been ignoring your social life then it’s time for you to put on those heels & get out to do some fun night outs with your girls.

Men love women who have a life. They like their women to play ‘VIP’ now & then.

If you’re too available for him then he just stops asking you out on dates; and dating your boyfriend even after marriage is as important as being loyal to him in this fair play.

5. Plan weekend getaways or wild vacations

Don’t be lazy in bed over the weekends. Take a short break from the city limits with your partner every once in a while instead & plan fun activities together.

Go to a beach barbecue & relax with him. There’s nothing stronger than a bond of regular conversation with your better half.

6.Invest time in sweet nothings together

Sometimes just walking hand in hand with your spouse to the market to shop for daily groceries or then making a trip to the thrift store together; ties the couple closer than they think. The simple act makes the couple grow deeper in love, a bond that ties them into companionship for life

So next time you both smile at a funny lamp or laugh at an ugly mug, you may want to buy it as a souvenir for happy times together.

7. Ego is the death of love

Sure, couples that fight are healthy couples. But couples that fight & refuse to make up are unhealthy couples. Don’t let your ego come in the middle of your marriage you smart women out there.

If he picks at you over dinner because he’s had a bad day at work, become his punching bag. It makes him feel like he has his wife to fall back on always.

8. Gift him the gadget he’s been eyeing 

Men love women who understand their need to dive into the world of robotics. Maybe because on Sunday afternoons while you may be busy with the kid, the husband more often than not has to fetch his own entertainment.

Remind him why he loved you so as his girlfriend. Save up & gift him that ‘out of your way luxury’ just to show you still miss him even in your hectic times.

9. Always remember your husband is the first kid of the house

Before your baby came into the world, you & your husband would spend quality, private time together which suffers a little after you become parents.

But it’s a total crime to ignore your man’s needs because of that. They feel ignored which drives them to find fun company outside.

Make him a part of this activity of raising the kids together. Let him help you around with them & he will realize what you both signed up for ;)

10. Keep him grounded

No matter how successful a ladder he’s been climbing at work, always keep him grounded at home. Love & respect him, take part in the beautiful celebration of his hard work but never stand for his arrogance. 

It’s only up to you to shape your family life as a woman of your home. A husband who cannot respect his wife will never belong to the house.

11. Fiery bedroom activities

Bedroom activities shall continue to remain fiery under all circumstances. Don’t ever let ‘that’ fire die out all you talented women out there!

Plan activities that will shock him but not without the eagerness of wanting to try them with you first.

If your man’s having fun with you then why would he look out? And no, letting your kids sleep with you in this day-n-age is a crime. It kills your alone time with your husband which is less anyway in your hectic schedules.

12. Have you made his best friend your best friend or rakhi brother yet?

Make sure you continue to go out with each other’s friend circle every now & then. Wasn’t it fun to romance each other around friends in college? Why change anything now?

It’s very important for couples to find the balance in their relationships publicly; for it helps them to have a backing support if things need intervention from well wishers at any point in their relationship.

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